
Of course since my return to the US after almost two & a half years in Senegal, I have a million observations�the number of choices Americans have for everything, the predictability of the questions people ask about my experience (the most popular first question hands down is about my readjustment to the US & what has been the hardest thing to get used to), the annoying emergence of low-carb everything, & the incredible amount of water in American toilets (I remember thinking the same thing after I came back from France�what is the point of all that water anyway?).
But one of my most shocking realizations is that the vast majority of people I talk to (these are people I know & have kept in contact with throughout my Peace Corps service) somehow believe that Pape & I dated & decided to spend the rest of the foreseeable future together through hand signals or some other form of non-verbal communication. Here�s how the typical conversation goes. Person I�m talking to says, �So how�s Pape�s English?� I respond, �Pretty poor but he�s working on it.� Perplexed look on person I�m talking to�s face & then some comment like �Well, how do you guys communicate?� I respond very non-chalantly, but secretly seething inside �um, French mostly, but also Wolof & now sometimes English.� Then perplexed, annoying person says, �Really? You picked up the native language while you were there? Can you really speak it?� So now I�m sick of having the conversation & answer back in a really snotty, annoyed way by saying something like �Well, the key here is that I speak French--fluently�like really good & the government even gave me a test & determined that I speak one level below a native speaker. But yes I also speak Wolof & no, I didn�t �pick it up,� I STUDIED it for 3 months during training & then throughout my service, so yes I can speak it. How do you think I was able to work & live in Senegal for over 2 years if I didn�t speak their languages?�
So my question is, why this response? If it had happened once I might have chalked it up to a small brain cramp on the part of the person I was talking to, but I�ve had this conversation with many, many people since my return. What�s going on?
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